How it began

Our story.

Singles Weekend didn't start as a business idea. It started with a weekend in Belgium that I've never forgotten.

The origin

It started in a Belgian chateau.

In 2005, I attended a singles weekend in Belgium — 30 people, a beautiful chateau in the Ardennes, great food, great wine, and zero awkwardness. By Sunday I'd made genuine friends and had some of the best conversations of my adult life.

That weekend was organised by a man who simply wanted to meet interesting people. He placed one advertisement. The response was enormous. Twenty years later, that small idea had grown into one of Europe's most loved singles travel concepts, with tens of thousands of guests.

I never forgot what that weekend felt like — the ease of it, the quality of the conversations, the way the shared setting created an instant sense of belonging. And I couldn't understand why nothing like it existed in Australia.

So in 2026, I decided to change that.

— Rick Elenbaas, founder, Singles Weekend Australia

A private estate in Belgium — the inspiration for Singles Weekend
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By Sunday I'd made genuine friends and had some of the best conversations of my life. I never forgot what that weekend felt like — and I couldn't understand why nothing like it existed in Australia.

Rick Elenbaas · Founder

Australia has more singles than ever before — and fewer good ways to meet them. Dating apps are exhausting. Speed dating is awkward. Singles bars are a relic. And dinner parties only work if you know someone who throws good ones.

Singles Weekend is the alternative. A proper weekend away, in a beautiful setting, with thirty people who are all there for the same reason.

The numbers

What makes it work.

85%
Know nobody beforehand
That's the point. Everyone is in exactly the same situation — which means the ice breaks faster than you'd expect. By Friday night you'll already have people to sit with.
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Compulsory activities
Nothing is forced. Our motto is Freedom First. Join the winery trip — or sit on the veranda with a glass of wine. This is your weekend.
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People — not 300
Small enough to know everyone by Saturday morning. Large enough that you'll always find your people. This size is deliberate — and it's the secret to why it works.
Before you ask

Yes, it's about connection.

Let's be honest — most people who come to Singles Weekend are hoping to meet someone. That's completely fine. That's actually the point.

What makes it different is the setting. Nobody is performing. Nobody is on a forced first date across a café table trying to figure out if there's chemistry in 45 minutes. You have an entire weekend to just be yourself — and let things unfold naturally.

Most guests leave with new friendships. Some leave with more than that. But nobody leaves wishing they'd stayed home.

"The best connections happen when nobody is forcing them. A long weekend in a beautiful house does more for chemistry than a hundred first dates ever could."

Singles Weekend — where you make friends

You can blend into the group or stand out as much as you like. Join the winery trip or sit on the veranda with a book. Have a deep conversation at 2am or be in bed by ten. This is your weekend.

Three nights in a shared house changes everything. By Sunday you're not a stranger anymore — you're someone they'll actually stay in touch with.

Our commitments

The Singles Weekend Guarantees.

Balance Guarantee
Always exactly 15 men and 15 women. If we can't achieve the balance, we delay the event rather than compromise the group dynamic.
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Age Guarantee
Events are grouped into tight age brackets. You will always be with people roughly your own age — no surprises.
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Room Guarantee
Shared rooms are always single-sex — men with men, women with women. Every guest has their own bed. Always. Private room upgrades are available at extra cost.
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Privacy Guarantee
Your personal details are never shared with other guests. We handle your information in strict accordance with the Australian Privacy Act 1988.
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Safety Guarantee
Every guest is vetted before attending. A dedicated host is present and sober throughout the entire weekend. Read our full safety policy →
No Pressure Guarantee
Nothing is compulsory. Nothing is forced. This is your weekend — join in when you want, rest when you don't. Freedom is the whole point.

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September 2026 · Southern Highlands, NSW · Founding member rate: $525

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